Saida Boj, known for her unapologetic commentary on modern relationships, has sparked fresh conversations with her bold views on marriage and personal happiness.
During her recent appearance on Nedu Wazobia’s Honest Brunch podcast, she shared a sentiment that resonated deeply with many, expressing admiration for women who summon the courage to leave unhappy marriages.
“Leaving a marriage is not easy,” Saida said, emphasizing the societal and emotional hurdles involved. “It takes courage, especially in a society that often prioritizes appearances over individual happiness.”
For her, walking away isn’t a sign of failure but a powerful act of self-respect. She believes it demonstrates a willingness to reclaim one’s joy and prioritize mental well-being in a world that frequently demands sacrifice from women to uphold the institution of marriage.
Her comments stem from an understanding of the immense societal pressures women face to remain in marriages, even when their happiness is compromised. Saida noted that many women stay because of external expectations, not their own desires.
“It’s easy to tell someone to stay and ‘make it work,’ but you’re not living their reality. It’s their life at stake, not yours,” she remarked, challenging the traditional narrative that enduring hardship in marriage is a virtue.
