Nigerian actor and comedian Okey Bakassi has opened up about a pivotal moment in his life that reshaped his approach to both his career and relationships.
Speaking during the Honest Brunch podcast, the seasoned entertainer shared how a conversation with a woman he once considered dating forced him to reevaluate his priorities and career trajectory.
The encounter, Okey revealed, occurred early in his career when he was still navigating the unpredictable world of entertainment.
The woman, who was also part of the entertainment industry, raised pointed concerns about the stability of their future together. She expressed doubts about how they would cope during times when Okey might not have gigs or a steady income.
Her words were direct and unfiltered: “If you can’t perform or make money, how do you expect me to prepare a meal for us? How will we survive?”
This blunt question hit Okey deeply. He admitted it was an uncomfortable but necessary wake-up call that forced him to confront the inherent uncertainties of his profession.
“At first, her words stung,” he confessed. “But looking back, I realize it was the push I needed to take my future more seriously.”
Okey described how this exchange became a turning point in his life. Determined to avoid being caught unprepared, he began to strategize ways to ensure financial security during the lean periods of his career. “
It made me realize I needed a safety net—something to fall back on when the gigs weren’t rolling in,” he shared.
